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Replying to @chi_ville_chick WHAT’S CHANGED?! (Leave me a question in the comments and I’ll answer it next!)

If someone does something that makes you unsure of them or their intentions, instead of obsessing over whether it’s a red flag or not, use it as an “amber light.” An amber light is an invitation to the kind of honest conversation you might normally be afraid to have. And this conversation will either become a green light (keep going) or a red light (get out) depending on how someone responds. We need to have more challenging conversations in life. That’s how our love life (and every other part of our life) is going to get better.

You’ll get no judgment from me whether you get back with your ex or not. You do what’s right for you. But even if you DO get back with someone, make your standards clear so they respect you on the way back in, and never, ever settle for less than you’re worth. P.S. LAST CALL 🚨 My live event is happening tomorrow, so don’t forget to sign up. Go to LoveLifeTraining.com now You’re not alone in this. Love you, friends. xx

After a breakup, a lot of us know we should go “no contact,” but then all sorts of sneaky questions start to pop into our heads and everything becomes a “What if . . .”   What if . . .   • It’s their birthday? • They’re going through a hard time? • I run into them? • They reach out? • I find out they really miss me? • “No contact” isn’t possible? • I believe deep down that we’re meant to be together? In today’s new YouTube video, I answer 7 of your top questions about going “no contact” so you know exactly what to do during the breakup.  Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching!

This is just a snippet from the 90-minute masterclass I hosted yesterday, “How to Heal From Heartbreak.” The feedback from those who joined has been so beautiful. I’ve had multiple calls this morning from friends and family telling me it instantly made a huge difference in the pain they are going through after their heartbreak. I didn’t want you to miss the chance to watch this yourself before it goes away, and to make this the start of your healing journey. Set aside some time to watch it before the recording expires this Friday at midnight PT. Go to LoveLifeReplay.com

You will find the right person sooner if you form the habit of saying “no” to the wrong people more quickly. Save this video as a reminder the next time you need it, and drop a ❤️ if you agree! P.S. If you’re ready to change your mindset to build the life that you want, go to MHRetreat.com for all details for my Weekend Retreat happening this October. Right now, I have a special Early Bird price that’s only available until March 28, so don’t wait!

Replying to @Bonnie Want to join my free masterclass next tuesday on healing from heartbreak? Sign up at www.LoveLifeTraining.com (takes 10 seconds!)

If you’re experiencing heartbreak right now, know that you’re not alone. On Tuesday, February 25, I’m hosting a live masterclass that you can attend for free, where I’ll share practical strategies so you can start to feel better. Go to LoveLifeTraining.com (link in bio) to secure your spot on the event for free.

SAVE this video for the next time you find yourself doubting your own worth after a breakup. ❤️ If you’re ready to finally heal your heartbreak, move on, and create better opportunities in your love life, drop the word “HEAL” in the comments or head to LoveLifeTraining.com to sign up for my upcoming training next week, “How to Heal From Heartbreak.”

Send this to someone who needs to hear it. ❤️ And if you’re struggling after a difficult breakup, you can watch the full video on my YouTube channel, where I share a tool that will help you find the peace and clarity you need to move on for good (link in my bio).

You may have an idea of your perfect partner—the person who feels like the missing piece you’ve been searching for. When you finally meet someone who appears to tick all your boxes, you tell yourself, “This is it—the search is over!”  But is that really what makes someone right for you? What if that person rejects you? In my new YouTube video, I show the TRUTH about compatibility in a relationship, and what really makes someone “The One,” so that you never obsess over the wrong person again.  Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/Blog to start watching!

Ever had that sinking feeling that something in your relationship isn’t quite right—but you push it aside because everything seems too good to be true? We’ve all been there. And no film captures this better than Anora, this year’s Best Picture winner at the Academy Awards. If you’ve ever rushed into commitment, been swept away by grand gestures, or felt like you’re in a one-sided relationship, then you need to watch today’s video. I break down the 5 biggest red flags that signal your relationship could be headed for disaster—and how to spot them before it’s too late. Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching.

What are your non-negotiable qualities in a partner? Tell me in the comments! 👇 Thank you, @Kristin Cavallari, for the beautiful conversation. ❤️

Replying to @Christine Dawn you’ve got time! Ask me a question and get my instant answer here: www.AskMH.com

Have you felt the heartbreak of losing the “love of your life,” and now you want them back? Or perhaps you feel trapped in sadness after a breakup and don’t know how to move on.  Either way, this is the first aid you need right now. And if you want help on a deeper level to heal from the heartbreak you're feeling, I have a free training happening next week that will help. Head to LoveLifeTraining.com now and I'll DM you with the information to secure your spot on the live training next week. I'm here for you.

YOU are the main character of your story. Not your ex. On Tuesday, February 25, I’m hosting a live masterclass called “How to Heal From Heartbreak.” Head to LoveLifeTraining.com This is the first training I have done on heartbreak in YEARS. For anyone who wants to move on from an ex, learn about the different kinds of heartbreak we can experience and how to overcome them, and so much more - this is for you! Thousands have already signed up, and I know this training is going to be so meaningful for everyone in attendance. I can’t wait to see you all there. ❤️

If this advice resonates with you, there’s still time to sign up for my event, “How to Heal From Heartbreak,” happening this Tuesday, February 25, where I’ll be sharing my step-by-step roadmap to help you heal and move forward. I know this is going to make a huge difference for so many of you. Comment the word “HEAL” below and I’ll send you the link to join right away! Can’t wait to see you there. ❤️

So you like someone . . . but they’re really bad at texting. Or they ONLY want to text and you can’t get them to have a real conversation when you’re apart. Is there anything you can do to move things forward? This video breaks down a TikTok video where a woman gets increasingly frustrated with the “bare minimum” guy she’s dating as she reads through their texts. Then I share some different responses she could send to show more of her standards—to finally get out of texting limbo. Oh, and if YOU need help with your own texting situation, I created a free tool that will help you. Head to AskMH.com to ask your question and get my best answer right away. ❤️

If you feel panicked at the prospect of not finding love, you’re not alone. When looking for love, most people are operating on a 3-to-6-month timeline. This often leads to us feeling anxious, forcing dates with the wrong people, or chasing texts from those who aren’t invested. But what if, instead of rushing, we asked ourselves: “If I wanted to make it inevitable that I found love in the next 5 years, what would I do?” We would approach love completely differently. We would focus on deep, meaningful self-work, ensuring we’re grounded and solid. Because when you meet someone special, it’s not about strategy; it’s about being your authentic self. True standards aren’t a strategy you change when they get tested. They’re a way of being. That’s why, on my Retreat, we help you create these standards as the foundation for who you want to be—not just for the short term, but for the rest of your life. If this speaks to you and you’re ready to do this deep work for yourself in 2025, my brand-new Weekend Retreat is happening this October 18–19 in Miami. Visit MHRetreat.com or comment “RETREAT” to learn more and secure your early bird discount.

This week’s new video is an extra special one: the first half of my interview with poet, meditator, speaker, and bestselling author @Yung Pueblo Books. We talk about specific signs that a relationship will last, the myth of “if it’s right, it will be easy,” how to stop toxic communication patterns, navigating the early stages of dating, and so much more.   No matter which stage of a relationship you’re in, this interview is a must-watch. I can’t wait to hear what you think! Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching! #yungpueblo